pengajaran hari ini: "Remember the compliments you receive, forget the insults"

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i don't have attitude problem...I have ATTITUDE & U have problem!

gosh..what a hot afternoon..

setiap hari..akan ada perkara sedih dan happy berlaku kat kita...kadang2 kita rasa down..kadang2 kita rasa cam kita ni xguna..
setiapkali kite dengar..baca..dan lihat manusia2 yang benci kita..yang suka kutuk kita..yang insult kita dengan perkataan yang sgt2 menyakitkan..kita rasa diri kita ni low sangat..kadang2 kita rasa macam kita ni sangat tak bagus.kita akan rasa kit NI TERUK...itu semua actually..hanyalah parasit2 yang akan memusnahkan kita..

kenapa saya cakap mcm tu?
sebab kata2 yang negative yang kite terima terutamanya dari orang yang xsuka kita.,.akan buat kn kita hilang keyakinan diri..

SAYA paste kan satu komen dari anon hari ni yang agak menyakitkan hati saya..

hye readers,,dun waste time with this kind of bloggers. She writes junks. Save the blog world from this sort of junk blogging.

so if u were me?
apa yang kamu rasa?kalau ikutkan hati..saya akan rase eh teruk sgt kah apa yang aku tulis..buruk sangatkah aku..??apa salah aku agaknya??

kalau ikutkan rasa marah and sakit ati saya..nak je cakap..if u think that i write all junk, then why dont you fucking start your own blog and show the world how to write blogs??

but then..i realize..It is sad that i have been receiving bad comments. But then bad people will always be there......

so i remember this quote....
"Remember the compliments you receive, forget the insults"
yaa..it is a better things to do kawan2..bile kamu sedih sebab kamu dikeji..dihina..dikutuk dicaci maki..jangan biarkan ia menjatuhkan kamu..ingat lah apa2 yang indah yang boleh buat kamu happy..forget the insults..

so today..disamping komen yang menyakitkan hati tadi..
I received a awesome compliments this morning..

I like you the way you are, I like the way you think, I like the way you behave. I respect you and I adore you..There is something about the you and your blog that made me realize a lot of things. Just wanted to thank you for making my day..

see?
buang yang menyakitkan..ambil yang menyenangkan hati..

so today..i start my day with a big smile..with a happy feeling..

alhamdulilah..

so guys..wanna share with me what's the best compliment you've ever received???
you are most welcoming..:)

p/s: this is special for anon yang everyday hantar bad comments kat saya..

i don't walk around trying to be what i'm not .
i don't waste my time trying to get what you got .
i work at pleasing me , not satisfying you ..tq

thanks for reading this..

Oh Man..Please..Please..Please..

i'm a woman so please allow me to speak like a woman..

hye beautiful..

you tell me..berapa kerat sangat lelaki hari ini yang benar2 gentlemen and act like a real men?yang ada hanyalah yang hampeh..kalau xhampeh pon..hampir2 hampeh..ade yang tak respect women, ada yang macam sial perangainye terhadap perempuan....even kadang2 org terdekat ngn kite..father, husband, boyfriend..brothers..etc..kadang2 bertindak sangat2 tidak gentlemen..

what i mean by gentlemen bukanlah harus mempunyai badan berketul2..gagah perkasa..owned a Lamborghini..but..mind your attitude towards women..

in short,,I don’t think of myself as a gadis malang kat tengah jalan waiting to be rescued by a prince with perisai yang gagah perkasa.but at least..men show me that u are real man..i think being gentlemen dengan perempuan tak salah..its only shows you respect women,it shows courtesy towards women. kan?kan?

kepada lelaki2 yang budiman..in case u read this entry..

PLEASE..PLEASE
bila kamu berjumpa dengan kawan perempuan kamu kat tengah jalan..or dia datang ngn public transport untuk berjumpa kamu..please..please..Always drop the lady back home. Or at least offer to drop her home..

in case kamu busy or ada hal yang mustahak..At least ensure you walk her to the bus stop or put her in a taxi or the most convenient mode of transport in case you cannot drop her home...bukan susah pon?kadang2 show to the women that kamu seorang lelaki yang bertanggujawab..

it is so sweet things..kan women?

PLEASE..PLEASE..
sebagaimana marah or bencinya kamu kat perempuan tu..Don’t ever say to them Bitch or betine sebagai ganti nama... It’s a MAJOR turn off. its really disrespectful. Lelaki yang gentleman die cool je and tak kan saying sesuatu yang menunjukkan mereka tidak menghormati perempuan like what a BIG JERK always do..Bila kamu nak menggelar seorang perempuan sebagai bitch and panggil die betine..at least..think about YOUR MOTHER or YOUR SISTER..they are women too just like the one u hate the most in front of u.

PLEASE.PLEASE
When walking with her, take the side closest to the street. It makes her feel protected.Jangan berjalan meninggalkan mereka jauh dibelakang anda..JANGAN membiarkan perempuan yang anda kenal or sayang rushing mengejar anda dibelakang..

PLEASE,PLEASE..
offer your seat if you see a woman standing. Especially when you see a pregnant lady boarding the bus.itu menunjukkan kamu seorang yang penyayang..trust me women will be very happy when u do that..

PLEASE.PLEASE
offer to help her when kamu tengok a women tengah pegang barang2 yang penuh ditangan..and kamu nampak diorang macam tersekat ke nak turun dari bus ke..or nak keluar dari pintu ke..why not try to be nice?at least offer dengan muka or tangan korang seolah olah cuba untuk help them even kamu TAK buat pon..i just want to make u know that, offer untuk menolong pon enough to make women happy even mereka menolak untuk ditolong oleh kamu.

PLEASE..PLEASE..
Time pergi dating pon..it’s only gentlemanly to pull out your wallet to pay. At least on your first date.bukannya bermaksud women ni materialistik or tak mampu nak bayar sendiri..but for me.. It’s just a dating etiquette,it’s plain respect...bayangkan first time jumpa pon..korang bayar asing2..nampak sgt tak gentlemen kan?

PLEASE..PLEASE
when a women doing something for u..or dia just buat sesuatu yang simple..like bagi ruang dekat korang untuk masuk terlebih dahulu..why not say "Thank YOU" or at least a smile even how VVIP you are..Respecting one another is always a good thing to do.

so easy kan?

honestly.. I don’t expect a guy to open the car door for me, I don’t expect him to pull up the chair for me, I don’t expect him to pay all the time, i dont expect him to baby-sit me as I don’t even expect seorang lelaki berjalan dihadapan saya all the time..i dont even expert die menyalakan api rokok without seeking my consent....i just wanna be treated like a women..im happy when i see men do respect me in that way..am i asking too much readers?

so lelaki..this is so general..wanita bukannya mahu dilayan seperti puteri..It’s just a way of respecting us..life would be so beautiful when men know how to make women happy..it is just a simple thing but believe me..semua perempuan mahu dihormati dan dihargai..

Women just want to be treated like women

please..please..please..please..please..
be good to women..show them your respect..
please..please..please..please..be gentlemen is not that hard..it is just the simple things to do..

So guys..
whats your comment?

thanks for reading this

A beautiful day with beautiful girl.

'hye!!!am back in action again wtf. See, I kept my promise. Told you I'm gonna update even how ugly busy i am..

So today's main topic is about my hubby..
he said that he got super jealous when im dating with my girlfriends..and he said that i ignore him..hubby u dont sporting la..so i dont want to talk about u..stop here hahaha..

K better potong itu tahik(cut that crap) and start blogging I've been delaying this too long. *guilty

change topic.

so today's main topic is about my girl..
u all ingat lagi tak..BFF contest yang saya anjurkan haritu?so ni adalah pemenang kedua..and for the 1st time jumpa sbb nak bagi hadiah..by hand u all..

my 1st impression when i meet her..

GOSHHH she is soo sweet..manis sgt2..and very friendly..kinda giler2 like me juga. eww.. kami macam dah lama kenal sejak zaman dinosour lagi..

makanya sapa2 yang pernah jumpa saya for the 1st time..akan tahu betapa saya ni memang mulut xreti diam..and penyayang..*puppy eyes..
so lets dating girls..men sorry ya..i dont date outside my species hahaha..

so forget about the men coz they just know how to make us hurt..
forget about the period pain its really bitching my day and You too perhaps..
forget about all men stuffs coz itS TOO annoying ..
forget about phone bills..and dont forget ask your beloved Bank account to settle it haha..
forget about broken heart bla bla..

eh..Don't listen to those rumours about Brat Pit proposing to me or Frank Lampard confessing his feelings to me k, WE ALL KNOW THAT I LOVE MY BF AND HE LOVE ME TOO HAHA(ayat cover)..

oh dah dah..potong itu tahik.

so here she is..
kindly..meet my girl of the month!!

NASUHA SUHADA

masa mule2 sampai
paparazi shot hahaha feeling like in Texas..

Well I guess I have to introduce people in picture here..the tallest girl next to me wearing pink is Nasuha suhada..and the cute girl next to me is obviously not my hubby hahaha she's nasuha little sister..yang kat tengah2 tu i dont need to intro la u guys must have got so sick of her pics hahaha..

I secretly think that we both look cute here wtf. ( now its no more a secret haha.)

masa sampai kat tengah2 pasir pastu ade plak si irwan tukang tembak gambar so apa lagi.. then start to berlesbo-lesboan haha..me love this pictures.

she's like my sister oh how i want a sister at home.sharing clothes. food. bed etc but not my hubby for sure haha...am so lonely guys trust me..

me loves her..start from that day..kami jadik closed..:)
MUAHHHH sikit..:)

Ok I'm really happy to see the end of this post.

Thanks for your time here.